hi everyone!
for those of you who are not amused by my videos of keithy and me (see blog below and accompanying comments) … calm down…
we are a normal couple who bicker from time to time! of course keith didnt REALLY mean that he wanted to run me over…he KNEW i was videotaping! keith loves/respects/encourages me enough to allow me to put him into the blog/show and deal with the flack he gets from being a part of it!
and i don’t know a single couple with a solid relationship who don’t (or is it "doesn’t" grammar people?) sometimes get on eachother’s nerves… geez.
if a married couple never lets other people see them argue, then everyone thinks they are full of shit- cause no two people can live together without EVER disagreeing….but if a married couple shows some not so perfect/lovey dovey moments then something is wrong with them too?
comment away…
xoxo
jennifer
wait, you actually felt that video needed an explanation?! i thought it was fun. i seriously doubt you would be showing us a video of the two of you if there were real problems. looked like a typical outing to me.
I thought your blog w/ Kiethy was damn funny! It was obvious that everything he said was in jest. You are an adorable couple.
We bicker usually about money, and of course she wants more sex. But the part about you lying under the wheels was over the top for me. I’d never say anything like that to my wife,I usually save those kind of remarks for the girls on Whateverradio message board, but I don’t think I could even say that to them. I’m disappointed that Keith even jokingly would wish you bodily harm. I ain’t got a dog in that fight, but you did ask for our opinions.
WTF is wrong with people?? Of course everyone bickers. I was cracking up when Keith said to lay under the car. To expect that two people never get upset with each other is abnormal. Jennifer you DO NOT have to explain your marriage to people. It was a moment in a couples lives, it was real. Anyone who cant see that and are making judgments about your marriage should piss off!!
Why do you let what other people think bother you? Like you said, you are a happy, normal married couple. I for one, enjoy seeing how other people live. I enjoy the windows into both your and Alexis’ lives and wish I could personally know both of you. That will never happen so keep on doing what you’re doing. I appreciate both of you.
I know from having listened to the show that you and keithy are very happy together and i didn’t feel any really serious anger from either one of you. Just the usual back and forth bickering between two people that are comfortable with each other and i figured by the time you got home things were just fine!keithy probably just didn’t feel like shopping but was sweet enough to take you anyway.
I TOTALLY AGREE, Jennifer! Couples who say they never fight are either lying or passive agressivly f-ed up. Like couples that constantly have to announce how in love they are with eachother – I’m sorry but that’s creepy and weird. You two really enjoy eachothers company, you can tell. You have to be able to be yourself with someone if you are in it for the long haul – it’s the only way it will last.
Couple who don’t spat don’t really love each other. They don’t care enough about that other person to let anything get to them. I love that you guys are as normal as my husband and me!
I also hear a cultural aspect to it.. I can hear the New Yorker in you both… which is a little more abrasive then in other parts of the country. I’ve heard that in New York, everyone acts like fruit cakes and wise guys anyways.. (i love it that you’re laughing at him even though he’s being a total pain.. heehe! lighten up Mr Rainy day!)
You’re exactly right, Jenn. We all need to know that we’re not alone in the world with grumpy spouses, unruly kids or that it’s “just us”. We’re in it together – irritable moments and all. Good job!
I really enjoy your blog. If you want a peaceful, argue-free blah blah marriage, then marry someone you are NOT attracted to….the chemicals that cause you to be passionate about someone, are the same ones that cause you to disagree. People who judge what they saw in your video as being abnormal are married to people they have no passion for. Or are ugly.
Are you kidding me? Geeze, I really enjoyed that video blog because it was sooo REAL! I know you have a good marriage because you are NOT afraid to let everyone see Keith irritated with you. Good for Keith and great for you!
I love the blog and think you are so cute:-)
You blogs were SO real and any happily married person could relate. Any sane person could tell you and Keith were having fun and it was all in jest. People need to relax and calm down. It’s the couples who never fight that are the most abnormal and lack attraction. You, Alexis and Whateverradio ROCK!!
They were so funny. Thanks for sharing. Enjoy your show!
i actually thought it was all okay. the only thing that i hated and i think everyone else is reacting to is what keith said… i have said some ‘major’ things to my wife over the years but i wouldn’t tell het to get under my car. maybe it’s a new york thing, i don’t know but out here in the west if a guy talks that way to his wife he could get locked up. certain things you just don’t say… but being irritated or being in a fight, that’s o.k. and it’s it’s all good for the relationship.
maybe if it sounded REMOTELY like he actually meant it (i.e., he wasn’t half laughing when he said to get under the car…), I would worry…but seriously people, if you can’t tell a joke from a serious threat you should seek help…and by the way, I’m so sick of people saying it’s a regional/NY thing (i live on the west coast)…IT’S A REALITY THING
OMG!!!
I have been married for 17 years and that’s normal bickering. You could so tell that Keithy was just being goofy and sarcastic…hello???
So about four or five comments were negative and the rest were positive…and the negative ones weren’t even that bad. Why do you choose to focus on the few people that like to stir the crap and devote a whole post to them? Trolls feed on attention. By giving them attention with their very own post, you give them the fuel to start criticizing everything you do on here.
jesus h. people who don’t bicker are aliens. I’ve lived with my husband for ten years and frankly, some days the mere sight of him makes me want to vomit. It doesn’t mean I don’t love him, it’s called marriage.
Oh gosh…….. I thought December 16th’s blog was hysterical. And sp real. I actually made my husband watch it… I love the laying down behind the car part…
LOL gigi……. I’ve just celebrated my 18th wedding anniversary… and I’m looking around the house to see if I own anything from 18 years ago… I mean good lord… I’ve change china patterns, silverware, furniture… and then I look at him… and sometimes I wonder… what the hell am I thinking.
Angie @ https://angiebeth.blogspot.com
I’ve been married almost 20 years. People disagree and sometimes out and out scream at each other. Doesn’t mean their relation is in the toilet. Those people who are ‘in love’ with each other to point of a cotton candy relationship are either in denial or hiding a horrible relationship!
Hi Jennifer, thanks for the laugh and display of a NORMAL, fun loving, marriage. Thanks for letting us take a peek into your personal life. Life is too difficult without laughter. Happy Holidays!!!!!
Why do you even feel the need to defend yourself? I haven’t seen the blog yet, but I’m about to watch it and know that I’ll be amused! You guys are shmoopies, like me and my husband! Too cute!
OMG….I am still peeing. I felt like I was watching me and my husband, you 2 are so funny. Keithy is a PIP….LOVED IT.
I still think he wants to run you over. I suggest contacting a local support group for battered and abused women. I am sure there are shelters or safe houses that can take you in and help you restart your life.
Get a sense of humour people!!!!!!!
I agree with Kathlic Kristin. I also don’t care for you telling readers to “calm down.” Are you kidding me? You take this all way too seriously. I suspect people write things on here to wind you up. It’s pretty easy to do.
My wife and I have been married for almost twenty years and get along great but thats probably because Im not home much.When I am home too much then we really get on each other’s nerves and I fantasize about driving over her with my eighteen wheeler…but thats marriage,its fun!
i think its awesame just bummed he didn’t slap you or at least punch you in the stomach
Jennifer – I am happy to see a couple that can laugh with each other,joke around, and be comfortable with each other in all situations (including bickering) – I believe it’s called love. I have all that and more with my husband as well. Stay happy and happy holidays!
PS – this is my first ever blog entry! See, your show is not only entertaining, it’s educational too! Love and happiness to you and Alexis
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Jenny Jenny Jenny!
That is so not anargument..
an argument is whn yoiu are fighting and you wish you were hunting out in the woods and he is not wearing bright orange ha ha!!
MY DH acts like Keithy if he has to shop. The ride to a store is like a walk down a dark hallway to death row.I think their brains innocently confuse the word “shop” with the word “disembowel.”
ohhhh frick patty you made me laff and snort with that comment!!!!
Seeing that you still haven’t figured it out….NO ONE REALLY CARES!!! But you obviously do. Stop trying to justify the flaws in your life including your relationship with your husband. You open yourself up to others opinions/comments by blogging this crap and then you get offended when the comments aren’t about how great you are. I don’t get it.
people who don’t think what keithy said was funny should go lie under the tires of a backing-up car. THAT would be so funny
I am married over 40 years. We met at the radio station at Adelphi (when your dad just got the Yogi song on the radio). If you look at your dad’s yearbook I am in 3 of the 4 years as Chief Engineer of WALI. Anyway we have been able to keep it going this long because of love and tolerance. The best advice is don’t discuss negatives with anyone but Kieth. I see so many women (and men) complain to friends about their hubby or boyfriend’s negatives. What happens is we fight and then soon forget the negative but then are in a position of looking bad to the friends so they keep digging at the negative. When my wife is pissed at me I give it a while and we both get over it. If she went to her friend and complained then she would have to keep the negative going. Eventually you have a cheering session behind you pushing you away from your hubby. I don’t know how to say it better than any argument that goes past bedtime needs to be resolved between only the 2 of you. No inlaws or friends involved. Any way, we are still here and still in love. We embarrass our kids sometimes the way we act. That also is another thing keep being a kid. We are older but I have always been told I look and act 10-20 years younger. My wife is the same way. If we ever meet you will see what I mean. Keep young and act young and love will always be fresh and new. Oh well I guess you figured out what I mean by now. You and Kieth should be able to keep it going for at least 40. Say hi to your dad and I want to wish you all happy holidays.
Howard if your comments get any longer you may want to consider getting your own blog.
get over yourself.
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That kettle Popcorn really tastes awful yuck ew ew ew
The video was very funny. People have nothing better to do than comment on other peoples lives. Happy New Year